小心!通常會害你的人都是最親的人。

在台灣或任何地方，約會通常是為了建立個人關係，互相了解和發展感情的機會。帶朋友參加約會可能會對對方產生負面印象，因為這會使約會變得尷尬，分散注意力，並阻礙真正的互動。約會是兩個人之間的特殊時刻，因此通常不建議在約會時帶朋友參加。

這是小鐘的親身經歷，他特別想分享這個故事。某天晚上，我看到《新聞挖挖挖》的節目，有位女嘉賓開始講述自己親身經歷。有次她帶著她的女閨密參加一個聯誼活動，意外地遇到一位相當優秀的男生。兩人相處融洽於是開始展開約會。一切看起來很順利，似乎有機會走向一段美好的關係。然而，後來男生開始疏遠她，她才發現原來是女閨密在背後不斷詆毀她，搞得男生心生疑慮，最終使這段感情無緣。男生也沒有跟女閨密在一起，這是單純的見不得別人比自己好的案例。

這不禁讓我想起自己也曾經參加類似的活動，在一個場合遇到一位空姐。我們個性相當互補，後來展開約會。後來女生告訴我，她常常受到我朋友的騷擾，原來同桌朋友不斷講我壞話。事後，她還對我表示祝福，希望我能找到真愛。她說這個朋友在外面到處打我毒針，甚至把對話紀錄給我看，表明她不想捲入這種情況。

在約會時不應該帶朋友參加，特別是那些比自己漂亮的女性或男性朋友。這樣做很容易讓對方感到不自在，甚至可能影響到約會的進展。我朋友父母的離異，主要原因是爸爸在事業上取得成功，而媽媽經常帶她的女性朋友回家宴客。最終，爸爸決定與媽媽的朋友建立新的關係，這直接導致他的家庭破碎。

Be careful! The people who often harm you are usually the closest ones.

In Taiwan or anywhere else, dating is typically an opportunity to build personal relationships, understand each other, and develop a connection. Bringing friends along on a date can create a negative impression as it may make the date awkward, divert attention, and hinder genuine interaction. Dating is a special moment between two people, so it's generally not recommended to bring friends along.

This is based on Xiao Zhong's personal experience, and he wanted to share this story. One night, he watched a program called "News Dig Dig Dig," where a female guest shared her own experience. On one occasion, she brought her female best friend to a social event and unexpectedly met an outstanding guy. They got along well, and they started dating. Everything seemed to be going smoothly, with the potential for a beautiful relationship. However, the guy started distancing himself later, and she discovered that her best friend had been constantly speaking ill of her behind her back, causing doubts in the guy's mind and ultimately ruining the relationship. The guy didn't end up with the best friend; it was simply a case of someone unable to tolerate others outshining them.

This reminded me of my own experience attending similar events where I met a flight attendant. We complemented each other's personalities and started dating. Later, the girl told me that she had been harassed by my friend, and it turned out that a friend at the same table kept saying negative things about me. Afterward, she wished me well and hoped I would find true love. She even showed me the conversation records, making it clear that she didn't want to be involved in that kind of situation.

During dates, it's not advisable to bring friends along, especially those who are more attractive than yourself. Doing so can easily make the other person feel uncomfortable and may even affect the progress of the date. I have a friend whose parents divorced mainly because the dad achieved success in his career, and the mom frequently brought her female friends home for gatherings. Eventually, the dad decided to establish a new relationship with one of the mom's friends, leading directly to the breakdown of their family.