浙江寧波的約會風波，因為金額龐大與男女雙方的各自說辭，迅速引發社會熱議。事件的核心，是一場看似浪漫的初次見面，卻因為天價餐費與彼此動機的不同，而演變成警局調解的鬧劇。

26歲的楊女士，平時在寧波從事平面模特工作，活躍於微博等社交平台。上月底，她在微博收到一名男子的留言，對方自稱是95年出生、身高181公分的生意人，經常在朋友圈和社交平台炫耀現金與豪車，給人留下「多金」的印象。兩人很快加微信，並約定見面吃飯。

餐廳的選擇由楊女士決定，她挑一家人均消費在1200元以上的高檔火鍋店。當天，她先後點帝王蟹、和牛等高價食材，總額約六千多元。隨後，男方建議點酒，楊女士便挑一瓶價值1萬2千元的紅酒，加上服務費，整頓飯的總價達到兩萬元。楊女士後來對記者表示，這並不算太高，因為店裡還有二十多萬元的酒她並未選。

不過，事情在中途發生轉折。男方以肚子不舒服為由離開包廂，卻遲遲未回。期間，他還透過手機和楊女士談論「後續活動」，話裡暗示希望楊女士能「以身相許」，作為自己付出高額餐費的回報。但很快，他就徹底失聯，不接電話，也未再回到餐廳。楊女士一度擔心他出事，還想報警求助，後來才意識到自己被設計。

無奈之下，楊女士只能自行買單。不過，由於那瓶紅酒尚未開封，退掉後餐費縮減至6832元。即便如此，她仍感到憤怒與羞辱，於是找上媒體曝光此事。

在記者的協助下，楊女士撥通男方林先生的電話。林先生否認有任何「猥褻」行為，但承認中途離開。他辯稱，自己之所以離席，是因為覺得消費太高，「吃個飯兩萬多，她是酒托，我才是被騙的！」當記者追問為何離開後還和楊女士商量「後續活動」，他立即掛斷電話。

事件調查後，警方揭開林先生的真實身份。他並非什麼富商，而是一家二手車行的普通員工，朋友圈裡炫耀的蘭博基尼其實是客戶寄放在店裡的車。最終，警方介入調解，決定由雙方平攤餐費，各自支付3416元。

然而事件並未就此平息。林先生隨後又出現在其他直播間，公開更多聊天紀錄，表示餐廳與菜色都是楊女士事先決定，他到場時餐點早已點好；而兩人之間的交流，也透露出這場「約飯」並非單純的朋友聚餐，而是各懷目的。

整件事到最後，雙方形象都受到質疑：一邊被指揮霍浪費，利用虛榮掩飾經濟動機；另一邊則被認為虛偽浮誇，試圖以「裝闊」換取額外關係。事件本身不僅是一樁鬧劇，也折射出當下部分人透過社交媒體建立「人設」、追逐物質與關係交換的現實矛盾，成為網路輿論爭相討論的社會話題。

This incident in Ningbo, Zhejiang, has stirred heated debate online due to its dramatic twists, the large sum of money involved, and the conflicting accounts from both parties. What began as a seemingly romantic first date quickly escalated into a public controversy that ended with police mediation.

The story centers on 26-year-old Ms. Yang, a model who often posts selfies on social media platforms such as Weibo. Late last month, she was approached online by a man surnamed Lin, who claimed to be a wealthy businessman born in 1995, standing 181 cm tall. His social media profiles were filled with photos of cash and luxury cars, giving off the impression of affluence. The two soon connected on WeChat and agreed to meet in person for dinner.

The restaurant was chosen by Ms. Yang—a high-end hotpot venue with an average cost of 1,200 yuan per person. She ordered items such as king crab and Wagyu beef, which added up to over 6,000 yuan. Later, Lin suggested ordering alcohol, and Ms. Yang selected a bottle of red wine priced at 12,000 yuan. With service fees included, the total bill reached 20,000 yuan. In her later interview, Ms. Yang insisted that this was “not too expensive,” pointing out that the restaurant had bottles of wine priced at over 200,000 yuan that she had not chosen.

Midway through the meal, however, Lin excused himself, saying he felt unwell, and left the private dining room. He never returned. During this time, he continued messaging Ms. Yang, hinting that after such a costly dinner, she should “repay” him—implying that she should accompany him to a hotel. Shortly afterward, he stopped responding altogether, ignoring calls and leaving her to pay the bill alone.

In the end, Ms. Yang had to settle the bill herself. Since the 12,000-yuan bottle of wine had not been opened, she managed to return it, reducing the total to 6,832 yuan. Even so, she felt humiliated and deceived, and turned to the media to expose Lin.

With a reporter present, Ms. Yang called Lin. He denied any improper behavior but admitted to leaving halfway through the meal. His explanation was that he suspected Ms. Yang was a “wine scammer” and said, “Who spends 20,000 yuan on a meal? I felt tricked, so I left.” When asked why he had continued discussing “after-dinner plans” with Ms. Yang after leaving, he abruptly hung up the call.

Police later revealed Lin’s true identity. Far from being a wealthy businessman, he was an ordinary employee at a used car dealership. The Lamborghini he flaunted online was actually a customer’s car stored at the shop. After mediation, the police ruled that both parties should split the 6,832-yuan bill, with each paying 3,416 yuan.

The dispute didn’t end there. Lin later appeared in livestreams, releasing additional chat records to argue that Ms. Yang had chosen the restaurant and ordered the food before he arrived, and that both of them were fully aware of the unspoken “expectations” behind the date.

The case quickly evolved beyond just a story of a failed date. For many online, it exposed the dangers of flaunting wealth and vanity on social media, the transactional mindset creeping into relationships, and the risks of being lured by appearances. While some sympathized with Ms. Yang, believing she was scammed and humiliated, others criticized her for extravagance and questioned her motives. Likewise, Lin’s image as a pretentious deceiver—posing as a rich man to pursue hidden agendas—also drew sharp condemnation.