近日，江蘇發生一起因“禮物心態”引發的刑事案件，引起社會關注。一名男子希望給女友送禮物，但因自身經濟拮据，無法負擔昂貴的開支。為了達到目的，他在女友熟睡時，偷偷將女友的金飾取走並出售，獲得現金共計3萬元人民幣。

男子出售金飾後，將其中13140元用現金包裝成一束花，打算作為禮物送給女友，其餘的款項則用於償還債務及日常生活開銷。儘管他自認行為是出於“心意”，希望表達對女友的關心，但這一行為涉及侵佔他人財物，已構成犯罪。

事件最終被女友發現並提起訴訟，案件由司法機關立案處理。此案在社會上引發熱議，許多人對男子以非法手段換取禮物的行為表示譴責，也對情侶間金錢與信任的界限提出反思。專家指出，無論出於何種動機，侵犯他人財產都是不可取的，理應通過正當方式解決經濟困難，而非以欺騙或偷竊手段滿足個人願望。此案也提醒社會大眾，在親密關係中應保持尊重與信任，避免因短視行為而導致法律後果與感情破裂。

Recently, a criminal case in Jiangsu attracted public attention due to a “gift-related” incident. A man wanted to give his girlfriend a gift but, due to financial difficulties, could not afford an expensive present. To achieve his goal, he secretly took his girlfriend’s gold jewelry while she was asleep and sold it, obtaining a total of 30,000 RMB in cash.

After selling the jewelry, he used 13,140 RMB of the money to create a cash “bouquet” as a gift for his girlfriend, while the remaining funds were used to repay debts and cover daily living expenses. Although he believed his actions were motivated by good intentions and a desire to show care, his behavior involved the misappropriation of another person’s property, which constitutes a criminal offense.

The incident was eventually discovered by the girlfriend, who filed a lawsuit, and the case has been taken up by judicial authorities. The case sparked widespread discussion in society, with many condemning the man’s illegal means of obtaining a gift and raising questions about the boundaries of trust and financial matters in romantic relationships. Experts have emphasized that, regardless of the motive, infringing on someone else’s property is unacceptable. Financial difficulties should be addressed through legitimate means rather than deception or theft. This case serves as a reminder that maintaining respect and trust in intimate relationships is crucial, and rash actions can result in both legal consequences and the breakdown of personal relationships.