老賴是一名在烏克蘭當義工的台灣人，根據他在當地居住大約兩年的經驗，發現華人和當地女性交往的方式主要有以下幾種：

1.透過網路交友認識：主要使用B網站和T網站。這些網友中有90%以上都有問題，不是純詐騙就是騙吃騙喝。正常女性的比例只有1%到5%。能約出來的不僅機率低，有些甚至可能是性工作者。

2.當志工或參加社交活動：雖然這些場合有機會認識人，但防備心很重。女人們不太願意提供聯絡方式，就算提供了，也不太願意約出來。除非你的Instagram動態有一些跑車或吃大餐的照片。

3.找助理是最可靠的方法：在Odessa，有許多中國人通過找助理的方式與烏克蘭女生交往。每天黏在一起，不發生感情才怪。只要她認定你會穩定供養，關係就能穩定。然而，她們常常為小事情情緒大爆發，交往前請做好心理準備。

4.通過特種行業認識：有些女性因生活所迫而從事特種行業，但她們中有些人期待能與有錢的中國人交往，共組家庭，迎向美好人生。

5.經常光顧有美女的餐廳或咖啡廳：讓這些女生對你有印象。如果她們對你釋出善意，就可能有戲。這種方式也不錯，因為這些想要努力工作的人，心態和價值觀都比拜金女強太多，更適合走入家庭生活。

6.如果年紀夠輕，可以來這邊念書.認識許多同學，也是最快可以交往的方式。

總之，來烏克蘭追女生的方法有很多，但每種方法都有其優缺點，選擇最適合自己的方式，並做好心理準備，才能成功追到心儀的女生。

Ways to Date Women in Ukraine

Lao Lai, a Taiwanese volunteer in Ukraine, has observed several ways in which Chinese men date local women based on his two years of living there:

Online Dating: Mainly using B and T websites. Over 90% of these users have issues, either being outright scams or just looking for free meals and drinks. The percentage of normal women is only about 1% to 5%. The chances of arranging a date are low, and some might even be sex workers.

Volunteering or Social Activities: While these settings provide opportunities to meet people, the women tend to be very cautious. They rarely share their contact information, and even if they do, they are usually reluctant to go out unless your Instagram features photos of sports cars and fancy dinners.

Hiring an Assistant: This is the most reliable method. In Odessa, many Chinese men date Ukrainian women by hiring them as assistants. Spending every day together makes forming a relationship almost inevitable. As long as the woman believes you will provide steady support, the relationship can be stable. However, be prepared for frequent emotional outbursts over small matters.

Meeting Through the Adult Industry: Some women enter this industry out of necessity but hope to meet wealthy Chinese men to form a family and pursue a better life.

Frequenting Restaurants or Cafes with Attractive Waitstaff: Make a positive impression on the women who work there. If they show interest in you, there could be potential. This method is favorable because these women, who are willing to work hard, have better attitudes and values compared to gold diggers, making them more suitable for a family life.

Studying: If you are young enough, you can come here to study. Meeting many classmates is also the quickest way to start a relationship.

In conclusion, there are various ways to date women in Ukraine, each with its own pros and cons. Choose the method that suits you best and be mentally prepared to succeed in finding your ideal partner.

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