為何現代人都不想結婚了 草食男只會更多不會更少

男人就表示家中就有勞動力，因此生下男孩意味著有更多的勞動力支持家計。在某些地方，這種觀念可能仍然存在，導致人們對男性子嗣有更高的期望。

中國在當年的一胎化政策下更是造成許多女嬰被棄養，很多就被外國人收養，造成現在婚姻市場陽盛陰衰的狀況，隨著更多人都娶不到老婆只能去東南亞找對象，而越先進的亞洲國家，女人的姿態就越高。多年以來在台灣，男性被認為是家族香火的傳承者，而女兒則被認為是嫁出去的水，意味著不再屬於原家庭。這種觀念可能導致對男性子嗣的重視，進一步影響家庭結構和價值觀。

很多女人除想要婚前拿到車房外，婚後的許多開銷都不想支付。如果用拍賣場的藝術品來形容現在的女人的心態，原本鑑定的價格可能只值30萬台幣，但是透過拍賣會後起標價50萬，開始有人展現興趣後就拉到60萬，這時候主人更是想代價而沽，已經比價值高出一倍，沒想到後面又有更多傻子競標，最終價格來到100萬，賣家開始覺得可能吃虧想要不賣準備再拍更高價。

而最後得標者找行家來鑑定發現是瑕疵品不值這個價就想不買。拍賣會外也有一些買家就故意等流標品，等拍賣品都沒有人再出手撿便宜。亞洲男女的最大問題就是男人不斷的去拉抬拍賣品的價格，而嚴重被高估的拍賣品也真的認為自己值這麼高的價格，最終導致雙方認知有極大差距後無法成交。而持續在拍罵會上流標的物品最終可能就只能在當鋪看到還乏人問津。

然而，隨著社會的演變，越來越多的人選擇不結婚或推遲結婚的原因很多，包括經濟壓力、教育和事業、婚姻觀念的改變等。每個人的選擇都應該受到個人價值觀和生活目標的影響，不應受到社會壓力或刻板印象的束縛。

In traditional views, having a son is often associated with having additional labor force to support the family. This concept may still persist in certain places, leading to higher expectations for male offspring.

In China, the one-child policy implemented in past years resulted in the abandonment of many female infants. Many of them were adopted by foreigners, contributing to the current imbalance in the marriage market. As more people struggle to find wives, some resort to seeking partners in Southeast Asia. In more developed Asian countries, women tend to have a higher status. Over the years in Taiwan, males have been considered the heirs of family lineage, while daughters are seen as leaving the family after marriage, no longer belonging to the original household. This perspective may contribute to the emphasis on male offspring and further influence family structures and values.

Many women not only desire to secure a car and a house before marriage but are also reluctant to bear many post-marriage expenses. If the mindset of today's women were compared to an artwork in an auction, the originally appraised value might be only 300,000 TWD. However, after the auction starts, the bidding may reach 500,000 TWD, escalate to 600,000 TWD when someone shows interest, and the owner may even consider selling at a higher price, doubling the perceived value.

Surprisingly, more bidders join, and the final price reaches 1 million TWD. The seller may start feeling that they are underselling and consider waiting for a higher bid.

Eventually, the winning bidder consults an expert and discovers flaws, realizing it's not worth the high price and decides not to buy. Outside of auctions, some buyers intentionally wait for items with no bids left to get a good deal. The significant issue between Asian men and women lies in men continuously inflating the prices of auction items. The items being significantly overestimated also lead the owners to genuinely believe they are worth such high prices, resulting in a substantial gap in perception that prevents a successful transaction. Items consistently left unbought in auctions may end up gathering dust in pawn shops, with little to no interest.

However, as society evolves, more people are choosing not to marry or delaying marriage for various reasons, including economic pressures, education and career pursuits, and changing perceptions of marriage. Individual choices should be influenced by personal values and life goals, rather than societal pressures or stereotypes.