中國50歲的騎行博主“木頭叔叔”與20歲的女性騎手“白蘭鴿”,網路上的男女朋友身份造假

2025-11-16

2025年11月1日,一則關於川藏線騎行的社交媒體事件在網絡上引發廣泛關注,主角是50歲的騎行博主“木頭叔叔”與20歲的女性騎手“白蘭鴿”。事件起因於兩人在大理旅遊期間相識,之後共同策劃長達一年的無人區騎行及短視頻創作合作。在合作過程中,王大叔負責全程資金支出與設備購置,而白蘭鴿則主要提供陪伴與情緒價值。兩人在社交媒體上以男女朋友的身份出現,吸引不少流量與關注。

兩人的川藏線騎行本應是一段跨越山川的美好旅程,但過程中卻逐漸出現矛盾與誤解。王大叔一路上花費三萬餘元,為白蘭鴿購買食物、拍攝紀錄,甚至對未來的關係心生幻想,悄悄計劃孩子的名字。他將這段旅程視為人生中的緣分,希望二人感情升溫。然而,抵達旅程終點當天,白蘭鴿突然將王大叔所有聯絡方式拉黑,猶如人間蒸發,讓王大叔感到措手不及與憤怒,並在網上控訴自己的一片真心被對方“白嫖”,指責白蘭鴿借旅行之名騙取金錢與陪伴。

對此,白蘭鴿則迅速反擊,表示二人本就是正常的旅行搭子,她在途中也有分擔開銷。她指出,王大叔全程過度依附,不斷強求婚姻與升級關係,讓她感到不適與壓力,因此拉黑只是及時止損的無奈選擇。雙方互相指責,事件迅速在社交平台發酵,引發網友熱議,有人認為女性失了分寸,也有人指責大叔混淆現實與邊界。

最終,為了平息爭議,白蘭鴿退還部分開銷共1萬8千元,王大叔也刪除相關視頻。這場原本應以美景與旅途經歷為主的騎行之旅,最終淪為互相指責、無人贏的網絡風波,成為社交媒體上騎行圈的一次典型“翻車事件”。事件也反映出,跨越年齡、利益與感情的合作關係中,邊界與期待若不清晰,很容易演變為爭議與矛盾。

On November 1, 2025, a social media controversy erupted surrounding a cycling trip along the Sichuan-Tibet Highway, involving 50-year-old cycling blogger “Uncle Muto” and 20-year-old female cyclist “White Dove.” The two had initially met during a trip in Dali and subsequently collaborated for about a year on content creation in remote areas. During their collaboration, Uncle Muto covered all expenses and purchased equipment, while White Dove participated primarily in a companion role, providing emotional support and interaction. On social media, they presented themselves as a couple, which helped them gain considerable attention and online traffic.

The cycling journey, which should have been a scenic and memorable adventure, gradually became fraught with tension and misunderstandings. Uncle Muto reportedly spent over 30,000 yuan on the trip, buying food for White Dove and photographing her along the route. He became emotionally invested, even imagining their future together and joking about potential names for their children. He saw the journey as the beginning of a meaningful connection. However, upon reaching the trip’s end, White Dove unexpectedly blocked all of Uncle Muto’s contacts, disappearing without explanation. Shocked and angered, Uncle Muto publicly accused her of taking advantage of him, claiming she “freeloaded” throughout the trip and used the journey to gain money and attention.

White Dove quickly responded, stating that their relationship was always that of travel companions and that she had also contributed to expenses along the way. She explained that Uncle Muto’s overbearing behavior, including repeated pressure to escalate the relationship toward marriage, had made her uncomfortable, and blocking him was a necessary measure to protect herself. The incident rapidly gained attention online, sparking debates about who was at fault—whether the young woman had overstepped boundaries or the older man had misread the situation.

Ultimately, to resolve the conflict, White Dove refunded 18,000 yuan, and Uncle Muto deleted the related videos. What was meant to be a journey marked by landscapes and shared experiences ended as a public feud with no clear winner. The incident has become a cautionary example within the cycling community and on social media, highlighting how unclear boundaries and mismatched expectations, especially across significant age and experience differences, can turn an otherwise positive collaboration into a widely publicized dispute.