烏克蘭女人的缺點,請先看完再考慮是否追求!

2024-06-23

老賴過去居住在烏克蘭兩年,他特別為大家整理當地女性的缺點:

狐臭:由於體質和飲食習慣的影響,一些烏克蘭女性可能會有體味問題,特別是狐臭。這可能會對周圍的人造成困擾,尤其是在社交場合或密閉空間中。她們在上班的時候會噴一些香水來避免尷尬,跟俄羅斯人一樣體毛相當多,所以中國人都稱俄羅斯人大毛,烏克蘭人二毛。

每月花許多金錢在造型:烏克蘭女性通常非常注重外表,每月願意花大量金錢在衣物、化妝品、美甲和髮型上。這可能導致經濟負擔,尤其是對於收入較低的人來說,可能會影響到生活的其他方面。在這美甲店的生意特別好。

穿著暴露:很多烏克蘭女性喜歡穿著較為暴露的衣服,這在某些文化或場合中可能被視為不適當或不禮貌,並可能引起誤解或不必要的關注。尤其是敖德薩城市,有些女人幾乎是穿內衣褲出門。

個性固執又自我意識強,容易與男方及長輩起衝突:烏克蘭女性通常具有很強的自我意識和獨立性,這在某些情況下可能導致與伴侶或長輩之間的衝突。她們不容易妥協,可能會在家庭和人際關係中引發爭執。很多女人在13歲左右就嘗過禁果,16歲就常假日泡夜店,父母都不會管,因此只要有人企圖勸說她們修正一些不妥的行為,她們就會勃然大怒。

下盤通常比較大,只要體重不控制很容易發福:烏克蘭女性的體型特徵之一是下盤較大,這使得她們在體重管理上需要更加注意。若不控制飲食和運動,容易出現發福的情況。

皮膚老化速度比亞洲女性快很多:由於基因和環境因素的影響,烏克蘭乾燥導致女性的皮膚老化速度較快。一些17歲的女生外表可能看起來像28歲,這在美容和護膚方面要投入更多的時間和資源,才能看起來與實際年齡差不多。

喜歡抽菸喝酒,生活作息不正常:烏克蘭女性中有不少人喜歡抽菸和喝酒,這對健康和外貌有負面影響。再加上生活作息不規律,可能會導致健康問題。

不守時的情況嚴重:很多烏克蘭女性有不守時的壞習慣,常常在與人約定時間後爽約,並且表現出無所謂的態度。這種行為在工作和人際關係中可能會引發不信任和不滿。

自我感覺良好,覺得男人就是需要臣服於他們:有些烏克蘭女性對自己的魅力和能力過於自信,認為男人應該臣服於她們,這種態度可能會導致伴侶關係中的不平等和緊張。

缺乏國際觀:由於經濟或其他原因,大多數烏克蘭女性沒有出國經歷,對國際事務和其他文化了解相當有限。這種缺乏國際觀的情況可能會限制她們的職業發展和跨文化交流能力。

對外國人期望高:由於經濟原因,有些烏克蘭女性對於外國男性會有較高的物質期望,這在跨國婚姻或戀愛中可能成為一個挑戰。她們重視男人的外表跟打扮,沒有好車跟房子較難讓她們心動。她們可以跟當地男人喝咖啡,跟外國人約會就要吃大餐,離開基輔碰到這樣的狀況會比較少。

語言障礙:雖然年輕一代的英語水平有所提高,但整體來說,烏克蘭女性的英語普及率不高,這可能會在國際交流中帶來困難。

文化差異:烏克蘭的文化背景與西方國家有所不同,這在跨文化交往中可能會產生一些誤解和摩擦。

 

情緒不穩定:由於烏克蘭的經濟狀況相對較差,有些女性可能會面臨較大的工作壓力,這可能影響到她們的生活和心理狀態。連天氣不好都會讓她們整天很鬱悶,跟她們意見相左的時候,可能要拿耳塞套住耳朵。

沒有理財觀念:常常拿到薪水後就馬上花光光,錢不能交給她們管理。

當然烏克蘭女性有許多優點,包括美麗的外貌、強烈的家庭觀念、良好的教育背景(雖然文憑不值錢)。然而,傳統觀念、對外國人期望高、語言障礙和文化差異也可能成為一些挑戰。在與烏克蘭女性交往時,了解並尊重她們的文化背景和個人特質,是建立良好關係的關鍵。這些描述僅為一般性觀察,不適用於所有烏克蘭女性。每個人都是獨特的,個體差異很大。理解和尊重文化和個人差異,有助於更好地建立良好的人際關係。

Lao Lai's Observations: Disadvantages of Ukrainian Women

Lao Lai lived in Ukraine for two years and has compiled a list of the disadvantages of local women:

Body Odor:

Due to their physiology and dietary habits, some Ukrainian women might have body odor issues, particularly underarm odor. This can be bothersome to people around them, especially in social settings or enclosed spaces. They often use perfume at work to avoid embarrassment. Similar to Russians, they tend to have a lot of body hair, which is why Chinese people refer to Russians as "Big Mao" and Ukrainians as "Second Mao."

Spending a Lot of Money on Appearance:

Ukrainian women generally place a high value on their appearance, willing to spend a significant amount of money each month on clothing, cosmetics, manicures, and hairstyles. This can lead to financial strain, particularly for those with lower incomes, affecting other aspects of their lives. Nail salons, in particular, do very well in Ukraine.

Revealing Clothing:

Many Ukrainian women prefer wearing revealing clothes, which may be considered inappropriate or impolite in certain cultures or settings, potentially leading to misunderstandings or unnecessary attention. Especially in Odessa, some women practically wear lingerie when going out.

Stubborn and Strong-Willed, Prone to Conflicts with Partners and Elders:

Ukrainian women often have a strong sense of self and independence, which can sometimes lead to conflicts with partners or elders. They are not easily compromising, which might cause disputes in family and interpersonal relationships. Many women experience their first sexual encounter around 13 years old and frequently visit nightclubs by 16, with little parental supervision. Thus, any attempt to correct their behavior can lead to significant anger.

Large Lower Body, Prone to Weight Gain:

A characteristic of Ukrainian women is their larger lower body, making weight management crucial. Without proper diet and exercise, they can easily gain weight.

 

Faster Skin Aging Compared to Asian Women:

Due to genetic and environmental factors, the dry climate in Ukraine leads to faster skin aging among women. Some 17-year-old girls may look like they're 28, requiring more time and resources in skincare to look their age.

Love for Smoking and Drinking, Irregular Lifestyle:

Many Ukrainian women enjoy smoking and drinking, which negatively affects their health and appearance. Combined with irregular lifestyles, this can lead to health problems.

Chronic Tardiness:

Many Ukrainian women have a habit of being late, often breaking appointments without concern. This behavior can lead to mistrust and dissatisfaction in professional and personal relationships.

Overconfidence, Believing Men Should Submit to Them:

Some Ukrainian women are overly confident in their charm and abilities, believing that men should submit to them. This attitude can cause inequality and tension in relationships.

Lack of International Perspective:

Due to economic or other reasons, most Ukrainian women have never traveled abroad and have limited understanding of international affairs and other cultures. This lack of perspective can limit their career development and cross-cultural communication abilities.

High Expectations of Foreigners:

Due to economic reasons, some Ukrainian women have high material expectations of foreign men, which can be a challenge in international marriages or relationships. They value men’s appearance and attire, and without a good car or house, it’s difficult to impress them. They might have coffee with local men, but expect a fancy dinner with foreigners. This expectation is less common outside Kyiv.

Language Barrier:

Although the younger generation has improved their English skills, overall, the English proficiency among Ukrainian women is still low, potentially causing difficulties in international communication.

 

Cultural Differences:

The cultural background of Ukraine differs from Western countries, which can lead to misunderstandings and friction in cross-cultural interactions.

Emotional instability: Due to the relatively poor economic situation in Ukraine, some women may face greater work pressure, which may affect their lives and psychological state. Even bad weather can make them depressed all day long. When you disagree with them, you may have to put earplugs in their ears.

They have no concept of financial management: they often spend it all immediately after receiving their salary, and the money cannot be managed by them.

Of course, Ukrainian women have many advantages, including beautiful appearance, strong family values, and good educational background (although diplomas are not valuable). However, traditional perceptions, high expectations for foreigners, language barriers and cultural differences can also be some challenges. When interacting with Ukrainian women, understanding and respecting their cultural background and personal traits is key to building a good relationship. These descriptions are general observations only and do not apply to all Ukrainian women. Everyone is unique and individuals vary greatly. Understanding and respecting cultural and personal differences helps build better interpersonal relationships.

   

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