以《流星花園》走紅的知名藝人大S（徐熙媛）近日驟逝，消息一出，不僅震驚娛樂圈，也引發眾多網友的悼念與不捨，尤其是大陸網友更是紛紛表達震驚與惋惜之情。

一位網友在社群平台發文表示：「李玟離世我沒有哭，周海媚離世我沒有哭，甚至瓊瑤阿姨離世我都沒有哭，我只是深深地懷念與惋惜。然而，大S離世，我真的哭了???。剛開始看到消息時，我根本不相信，以為只是無聊的娛樂八卦，因為這一切實在太突然、太令人震驚了！但隨後各種消息湧現，證實她真的離開了……」

這位網友進一步分享自己當下的心情：「當時是下午1點，我正在逛商場，眼淚不自覺地在眼眶打轉，甚至整個下午心情都無比沉重。我不追星，也不是她的粉絲，平時也不太容易被煽情的事打動，但這一次，我的內心充滿了震驚、惋惜、自憐、悲憫與共鳴……腦海中那個鮮活、立體、個性鮮明、堅強又美麗的女子，竟然在48歲嘎然而止，生命竟然如此脆弱！」

婚姻消耗論再掀熱議：好婚姻不應該讓人筋疲力盡

該網友還提及，大S與前夫汪小菲的婚姻或許對她的身心造成極大的消耗：「第一時間我的直覺告訴我，她和汪的這段婚姻，絕對消耗她的能量。誰對誰錯不予置評，但偶爾在網路上看到他們的爭執，作為有過婚姻經驗的人，真的能夠深刻體會，這種心力交瘁的感覺……婚姻中的爭執與糾纏，絕對會消耗一個人的身心，也許是因此導致抑鬱成疾，也許是生孩子後落下的病根，最終，一場肺炎就帶走她的一切。」

這番話也讓不少人深有共鳴，特別是「婚姻中的消耗」議題再度被熱議。「無論對方人品多好、多有錢、多有愛，如果這段婚姻讓你精疲力盡，那就絕對不是一段好婚姻。其實不僅是婚姻，無論是愛情、親情、友情……任何會不斷消耗你能量的關係，都應該及早遠離，否則真的會折壽。」該網友語重心長地寫道：「遠離消耗你的人，遠離讓你情緒起伏波動的人，這才是對自己最好的保護。」

粉絲悼念：她的美麗與堅強將永存心中

大S的猝逝不僅讓人痛惜她的人生過早畫下句點，也讓許多曾經看過她作品的人不勝唏噓。當年，她在《流星花園》中飾演的杉菜，堅韌不拔的形象深植人心，而她在演藝圈的努力與拼搏也讓人敬佩。然而，如今她的生命戛然而止，讓人不禁思考：在人生的各種關係中，如何才能真正保護自己，不被無形的壓力與消耗拖垮？無論如何，她的美麗與堅強，將永遠留在粉絲與影迷的記憶中。

"Meteor Garden" Leading Actress Barbie Hsu Passes Away Suddenly, Fans Mourn: "Life Is So Fragile!"

Barbie Hsu (Xu Xiyuan), the renowned actress who rose to fame with Meteor Garden, has recently passed away suddenly. The news sent shockwaves through the entertainment industry and sparked an outpouring of grief and condolences from countless fans, especially those in China, who expressed their shock and sorrow.

One netizen shared on social media: "I didn’t cry when Coco Lee passed away, nor when Kathy Chow left us. Even when Qiong Yao passed away, I only felt deep nostalgia and regret. But when I heard about Barbie Hsu’s passing, I truly cried. ??? When I first saw the news, I refused to believe it, thinking it was just another baseless celebrity rumor. It was simply too shocking, too sudden! But as more reports emerged confirming its truth, I was devastated…"

The netizen went on to describe their emotional reaction: "It was 1 PM, and I was shopping at the mall when I suddenly felt tears welling up in my eyes. My heart felt unbearably heavy for the entire afternoon. I’m not a die-hard fan, nor do I follow celebrities closely, and I usually don’t get emotional easily. But this time, I felt an overwhelming mix of shock, sorrow, self-pity, grief, and empathy. The image of this lively, strong-willed, and beautiful woman was so vivid in my mind—yet her life ended abruptly at just 48 years old. Life is truly fragile!"

The Debate Over "Marriage as Emotional Drain" Resurfaces: A Good Marriage Shouldn’t Exhaust You

The netizen also speculated that Barbie Hsu’s marriage with her ex-husband, Wang Xiaofei, might have taken a heavy toll on her physically and mentally: "My first instinct was that her marriage with Wang must have drained her energy. I won’t judge who was right or wrong, but seeing their public disputes over the years, I can deeply relate as someone who has experienced marriage. The emotional and mental exhaustion from marital conflicts is immense. Perhaps this led to depression, or maybe complications from childbirth left her with lasting health issues. In the end, it was pneumonia that was blamed for everything."

This perspective resonated with many, reigniting discussions on how marriage can drain a person. "No matter how kind, wealthy, or loving your partner is, if your marriage leaves you exhausted and depleted, it is not a good marriage. And it’s not just marriage—whether it’s romantic relationships, family ties, or friendships, anything that constantly drains your energy should be avoided as soon as possible, or it will shorten your life." The netizen further advised, "Stay away from people who exhaust you. Stay away from those who make your emotions fluctuate. That is the best way to protect yourself."

Fans Mourn: Her Beauty and Strength Will Forever Be Remembered

Barbie Hsu’s sudden passing has not only left fans mourning the premature end of her life but also sparked deep reflection among those who have followed her career. In Meteor Garden, her portrayal of Shan Cai—a strong-willed and resilient young woman—left a lasting impression on audiences. Her perseverance and dedication in the entertainment industry also earned widespread admiration.

Now, with her life tragically cut short, people are left pondering: How can we truly protect ourselves in relationships and avoid being overwhelmed by invisible pressures and emotional exhaustion?

Regardless of the sorrow surrounding her passing, one thing remains certain—her beauty, strength, and unforgettable presence will live on in the hearts of her fans and admirers forever.

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